One of the FAQ’s I get is “What do I wear?” or “What should I bring”….
I am going to go in to detail with what you should wear for your boudoir session and things that I have found to be not so flattering. You might have everything you need right in your closet or you might have to shop around a little bit. It is OKAY to buy all new things… but why bother if its already in your closet.
First thing, boudoir and being sexy doesn't always mean little to no clothing... some of my clients favorite shots are portraits, or shots in jeans and button-downs! Clothing, lingerie, or implied nudity can all work. Plan your boudoir outfits around your comfort level. And don't wait till the night before to start trying to bring it all together.
DRESS
One simple idea is starting the session wearing a cocktail, or other fitted dress. Paired with some great heels...what's not to like? A tight dress is great to bring along. How many great photos do you have of yourself? Not many, huh? Not only is taking a few shots "clothed" at the start of your session fun, but its a great way to "ease" into your boudoir session, and to get a chance to get used to taking photos-- before you have to start baring it all. They're also great for sharing and for online use.
KEEP IT CASUAL
Keep it simple. Some of my favorite all time photos are shots in a button down shirt and a pair of jeans. Jeans can be used a hundred ways in a boudoir session-- and all of them cute. Paired with a bra, or photographed slightly unbuttoned. A simple white tank top can be the hottest thing you own. Don't forget sheer tops, pajamas, pajama bottoms paired with a bra.
If you are doing your photos as a gift: His tie, sports jersey, or uniform. One of the most popular looks is a mans white button down shirt. It may be big on you, but it's still cute.
BRA SETS
Bra sets are probably the "must have" boudoir outfit of any session. Who doesn't own lots? Bring your favorites, or pick up something new. Opt for lacy, and leave your t-shirt bras & casuals at home.
LINGERIE, OF COURSE!
Not every woman is a lingerie person. The great thing about a boudoir shoot is that its your chance to dress up. A lot of lingerie may not really be practical for every day wear, but hey, your boudoir session is made for these items.
That corset you bought for that special occasion? Now is the time to break it out of the closet. The same for garters and stockings. A vintage slip or cami to keep it demure. They all incorporate really well in a boudoir shoot. As you know, lingerie can range from demure to sultry, and can lead to some undoubtedly sexy photos. So bring what suits your mood!
OHHH VINTAGE!
I am a big fan of vintage. I really need to start making a collection to share for shoots. If you have anything vintage... please bring it. A vintage slip or cami. Tulle skirts. Sheers- such as bed shirts. It's all very romantic, and although you may not be walking around wearing sheer as daily routine, it seems to be one of those things that works in photos. If you're into retro lingerie now's your chance to shine.
DON’T FORGET ACCESSORIES!
Accessories are important! IDEAS: stilettos, thigh high boots, Scarves, Jewelry, Pearls, Fishnet stockings, Thigh highs, Garters, Necklaces. Please bring a few long necklaces. They are a must.
UNDER THE SHEETS
Lots of women like to shoot photos "under the sheets" to give the look of "implied" nudity. If you are planning on shooting in this fashion, please bring a nude g-string if you are not comfortable being nude. It can be removed in editing and will give you the appearance of being nude in your "under the sheets" shots.
PLEASE DON’T FORGET
Please removes tags from your underwear and lingerie. Tags are not sexy. Nowadays it seems some tags are even larger than the lingerie to which they are attached! Be mindful of tags.
Get your nails done before your shoot.
Big white patches under your arms are definitely not a good look (and not easy for me to fix.)
Don't overdo it with tanning. Sunburn is not a good look, and cannot be fixed.
Do not wear any body makeup, body powder or bronzers.